“Si miras fijamente al pudú, el pudú te devuelve la mirada.”

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Cake day: June 12th, 2023

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  • I’m sorry if I made you upset. Honestly.

    Ofc I have no work regarding that because I was shitposting. I was hoping you’d take things a bit more lightly.

    Personally, I’m a bit within the autism spectrum. When I was a kid I had a lot of trouble with some social hints that other people seemed to pick up really fast. With time some of those things I’ve learnt to pick up better, and others not so much. Also got bullied and that wasn’t fun.

    My impression of this situation is that you misread a social hint, which is fine, and then got a little bit defensive about it, which is also fine. I can understand that. Has happened to me a billion times and I’m not as graceful as you are.

    It’s just like… For me it was better to, at some point, stop resisting the pain of accepting I didn’t read these things as well as others did and just admitting “sorry, sometimes i don’t get when ppl are joking” because it reminded me of being in the spectrum and therefore different… For me, this was unthinkable… So I kept insisting on points when many others were telling me, with relative compassion, that I may have made a mistake.

    I don’t care about the issue we were talking about anymore. Just want you to understand that even if I do believe you made a mistake in reading the situation, It’s not what I now consider relevant of this conversation, don’t think you were wrong in your perspective regarding security and I’m not laughing at you. I’m not doing anything at your expense. Just sharing a personal difficulty with you for your own possible benefit.

    Idk if you can relate, but if you can maybe it could help.

    Peace, friend, and have a great week. <3