I have a single server with everything inside. By using Tailscale to access my server I’m giving full access to it and the entirety of my network to a third party tool that I don’t know that well.

Random guess: Install flatseal and use it to give permissions to that folder.

:help <type stuff> tab

It’s much harder, you’re right! :P

The other half is how to not poop for 3 days!